12/15/2023

My orchids send out their spikes, always growing towards the light. It means the blooms, when they come, are often facing away from me, towards the window.

I used to think it would be nicer if they grew the other way, oriented inwards so I could see the flowers better. After all, I work all year to foster happiness in these plants. It is a long and slow labor of observation and care. When they are able to bloom, it means I’ve done my job well. Shouldn’t they appreciate my time and attention?

But really, I should not expect anything to go against its nature. And I don’t need to be thanked. To see them thrive is its own reward.

I can take this as a gentle reminder instead. Flowers turn their faces towards the sun. They gaze out and up. I should do the same.